Why Image is not important – And How It Keeps Us Trapped

EON
May 27, 2025
2 min read

Why We Care What Others Think – And How It Can Keep Us Trapped

We often say, “I don’t care what people think of me.” But let’s be honest: most of the time, we only say that when someone says something negative. And the fact that we feel the need to say it already proves something — it does affect us. If it truly didn’t, we wouldn’t waste a second on it.

Now flip it around. When someone compliments you, praises your work, or says something kind — what happens? You smile. You feel good. That moment of appreciation lifts your mood. That too is proof that you do care what others think. Maybe not always consciously, but you do.

The Psychology Behind It

Humans are social beings. Thousands of years ago, survival depended on being part of the group. Being rejected meant being alone — and alone meant danger. That ancient fear is still alive in our nervous system today. Rejection feels like a threat, even if it's just a dirty look or a critical comment.

On top of that, we’re conditioned from childhood to seek approval. Good grades, polite behavior, fitting in — we’re rewarded for doing what’s expected. So by the time we grow up, most of us are still wired to avoid disapproval and seek validation. Often without even realizing it.

How It Keeps You Stuck

This deep concern with what others think can become a silent prison. It can stop you from starting something new, speaking your truth, or following your dreams. It freezes people. Holds them back. And keeps them chasing someone else’s idea of success.

Think of how many people are in financial trouble not because they lack income, but because they feel pressure to live up to an image.The car must be new.The clothes must be branded.The lifestyle must be impressive.

But the bank account is empty. The mind is restless. And the life feels hollow. We say we don’t care what others think, but we often care so much that we sacrifice our peace, time, and freedom to protect a version of ourselves we don’t even recognize.

Matrixism: Unplug, Simplify, Live Real

In Matrixism, we challenge that illusion. We aim to unplug from the systems that feed on comparison, ego, and fear.

That’s why we choose minimalism — not as a style, but as a form of truth.

Don’t buy things to impress people. Buy what you truly need. Nothing more.

When you stop living to impress, you start living in clarity.When you stop seeking approval, you begin to trust yourself.And when you let go of what others think, you finally make space to move freely — and live your own path.